Many parents wonder how social networks influence adolescent behavior. It is a logical and legitimate question that usually arouses negative notions among parents.
The truth is that the use of social networks should not necessarily be negative for young people. However, some excessive use is currently perceived, which generates dependence and concern, both in adolescents, who feel the weight of what others think of them, and in parents, who may see inappropriate variations in their children's behavior.
The influence of social networks on adolescent behavior
Starting from the premise that they do not necessarily have to be negative influences, but they are seen as such by many parents, we are going to try to analyze efficiently this situation that worries many adults.
The influence of social networks can become negative when the young person has a high dependency for various reasons:
- Need to be constantly connected.
- Need to receive a high number of likes, likes and reactions. If this is not achieved, the child may fall into situations of anxiety, stress, anger, irascibility, etc.
- Young people could receive negative influences from strangers, or even be victims of cyberbullying through social networks.
In any case, it is obvious that part of the social life of kids now goes through Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. That's a reality that everyone needs to be aware of.
Need for approval
It is obvious that most adolescents need the approval of their peers. Feeling accepted is important for young people. Now, it is true that this priority becomes even more powerful with social networks. Likes influence their self-esteem. They need popularity, and if they don't have it, they can experience negative and frustrating emotions and thoughts.
Less personal socialization
The use of social networks causes children to interact less with each other. In fact, these relationships that we can consider real, face-to-face, may even be looked down upon as something of little value. With virtual contact they already feel satisfied, even if it may be more superficial.
Creation of digital identity to hide complexes
It is common for young people to try to hide their complexes and insecurities. The digital identity that facilitates the use of social networks becomes a tool to keep themselves safe.
However, if an adolescent does not recognize his complexes, it will be difficult for him to face them. If he looks obese, with acne on his face or with unattractive hair, he should receive psychological and emotional help, not cover it up behind the facade provided by the Internet.
Detecting negative influences from social networks
Let's take a look at some clues that may show us that social media is negatively influencing teens. Take note:
- Progressive increase in time spent on networks.
- Difficulty separating from a cell phone or other device that keeps you connected.
- Disproportionate irritation if encouraged to leave the rrss for a while.
- Altered and uneasy, anxious and nervous states.
- He gives up activities he used to enjoy to spend more time in front of a device.
- He doesn't leave his cell phone behind even at night in his bedroom.
- He is discouraged and dissatisfied with everything.
From Logos International School we promote an appropriate use of social networks so that they do not have a negative influence on the behavior of teenagers. That is why we can be of help to parents who may be concerned about this issue.